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Total Life Makeover
In today’s newsletter, I want to introduce a system I created just a few months ago, which I call “The Total Life Makeover” system. It is the foundation of what we use to help our coaching clients achieve the change they seek.
I want to pose a question to you that I asked myself over 30 years ago: How can you experience a genuine life transformation? You see, many people are not happy nor satisfied with their life. They wish things were different. They wish they had better relationships, made more money, were in better physical condition, and the list could go on and on. But how can you experience the transformation you want? How can you change your life on purpose?
This system is intended to take you from where you are to where you desire to go. I am not interested in theory that doesn’t lead to tangible and quantitative results. I truly believe that if the process is managed correctly, the results will follow. This system is designed in such a way that you will see immediate and permanent results. And ideally, within 90-120 days, you will not even recognize the person you were just three or four months earlier!
If you are interested in learning more about The Total Life Makeover system, click here.
There are 10 phases through which someone must pass in order to change any area of life. If you miss one or even bypass one of the phases, you will sabotage your progress. I see it happen all the time and people wonder why they can make the changes they need to make.
So I will give you the first two phases. If you are interested in learning the rest or changing your life, please inquirer about our coaching program (give us a call at 708.614.9896).
Phase 1 – Leveraging Pain and Pleasure
Most people have the ability and desire to change, but they are simply unmotivated to do it. Now allow me to explain what I mean by motivation, because I am not using it the way most people come to know it. I am not referring to an excitement or false pretension about something. I am not talking about being emotionally excited about changing. I am talking about desire...drive...determination.
The only way for me to help someone transform their life is by helping them create a sense of urgency that’s intense enough to drive them to become different or WANT to change their present circumstances. Therefore the greatest leverage you can create for yourself is the pain that comes from the inside, not necessarily from external circumstances. In order to effectively do this, you must ask these two questions:
- What will this cost me if I do not transform this area of my life?
- What benefits will come into my life as a result of me making this change?
Phase 2 – Accepting Personal Responsibility
Your life is a product of your own construction. Before you can make forward progress in life, you must accept personal responsibility for the ultimate outcome of your life. Les Brown wisely stated, “Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get you where you want to go, no one else.”
Again, check out my coaching program – just give us a call at 708.614.9896.
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